{"id":1747,"date":"2022-05-28T16:06:03","date_gmt":"2022-05-28T13:06:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rockvell.com\/?p=1747"},"modified":"2022-07-08T20:21:30","modified_gmt":"2022-07-08T17:21:30","slug":"valideynl%c9%99rin-s%c9%99hvi-yaxsi-t%c9%99rbiy%c9%99-nec%c9%99-yoxsulluga-g%c9%99tirib-cixarir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rockvell.com\/?p=1747","title":{"rendered":"Valideynl\u0259rin s\u0259hvi: yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 nec\u0259 yoxsullu\u011fa g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Q\u0259dim Romada yem\u0259kd\u0259n sonra \u0259l salfetl\u0259ri \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 q\u0131vr\u0131m sa\u00e7l\u0131 o\u011flanlardan istifad\u0259 edirdil\u0259r. XVIII-ci \u0259sr\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 m\u0259qs\u0259di il\u0259 fiziki c\u0259zaya m\u0259ruz qoymaq ad\u0259t idi. H\u0259tta 8 ya\u015f\u0131nda taxta \u00e7\u0131xan Fransa kral\u0131 XIV L\u00fcdovik s\u0259h\u0259r \u015fallaqlanmaq d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259ri il\u0259 yuxusuzluqdan \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kirdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>XIX \u0259srd\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131 qorxulu personajlarla qorxutmaq m\u0259\u015fhurla\u015fd\u0131. \u0425\u0425 \u0259srd\u0259n etibar\u0259n valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131na daha \u00e7ox vaxt ay\u0131rma\u011fa ba\u015flad\u0131lar. Yaln\u0131z bel\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q qorunma il\u0259 ifad\u0259 edilir ki, bu da faydal\u0131 bacar\u0131qlar\u0131n, o c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n maliyy\u0259 sah\u0259sinin inki\u015faf\u0131n\u0131n dondurulmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130nsanlarda \u0259sas psixoloj\u0131 proqram 7 ya\u015fa q\u0259d\u0259r y\u0131\u011f\u0131l\u0131r. O, i\u015fqabiliyy\u0259tli v\u0259 ya t\u0259nb\u0259l, f\u0259al v\u0259 ya passiv, c\u0259sur v\u0259 ya qorxaq olacaq. Bu ya\u015fda u\u015faq m\u0259lumat\u0131 tez qavray\u0131r, ciddi q\u0259rarlar q\u0259bul ed\u0259n t\u0259f\u0259kk\u00fcr is\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 formala\u015fmay\u0131b. \u0130lk bax\u0131\u015fdan faydal\u0131 v\u0259 ya neytral g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n informasiya u\u015faqda \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn sonuna q\u0259d\u0259r u\u011fursuzluq \u00f6z\u0259yi kimi formala\u015fa bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"Cizgi-filml\u0259rin-t\u0259siri\">Cizgi filml\u0259rin t\u0259siri<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>U\u015faqlar televizor qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda sonsuz vaxt ke\u00e7irm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131rd\u0131lar. Ancaq kommersiya m\u0259qs\u0259dli animasiya filml\u0259ri u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ah\u0259ngdar inki\u015faf\u0131na deyil, qazanc \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 y\u00f6n\u0259ldilmi\u015fdir. \u018fsas, diqq\u0259ti c\u0259lb etm\u0259k v\u0259 cizgi filmi brendl\u0259rini alma\u011fa s\u00f6vq etm\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Problem ondad\u0131r ki, u\u015faqlar cizgi film q\u0259hr\u0259manlar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259qlid edirl\u0259r. U\u015faq \u201cMa\u015fa v\u0259 Ay\u0131\u201d filmin\u0259 baxd\u0131qdan sonra \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc nec\u0259 aparacaq? T\u0259bii ki, eqoist, t\u0259nb\u0259l, \u0259xlaqs\u0131z, qeyri-insani olan \u0259sas q\u0259hr\u0259man kimi. O, he\u00e7 vaxt i\u015fl\u0259mir v\u0259 \u00f6z kefin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r, mehriban ay\u0131 \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 parazitlik ed\u0259r\u0259k. U\u015faqda h\u0259v\u0259sli yarad\u0131c\u0131 deyil, \u015f\u0131ltaq istehlak\u00e7\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 formala\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Karikatura\u00e7\u0131larda z\u0259ngin insanlar\u0131n g\u00f6z\u0259l obrazlar\u0131na nadir hallarda rast g\u0259lm\u0259k olur, bir qayda olaraq, onlar iyr\u0259ncdirl\u0259r. Yetkin bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 zehni m\u0259nfi personaja \u00e7evrilm\u0259k ist\u0259mir, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 onu s\u0259rf\u0259li s\u00f6vd\u0259l\u0259\u015fm\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n qoruma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015facaq, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, qorxu hormonu adrenalini istehsal ed\u0259r\u0259k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Valideynl\u0259rin t\u0259siri<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u018fks\u0259r valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 sevgi, qay\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259hat\u0259 edib, \u015f\u0131ltaql\u0131qlar\u0131na g\u00f6z yumaraq onlara yax\u015f\u0131 h\u0259yat ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 \u015f\u0259raitd\u0259 h\u0259yat anla\u015f\u0131lan v\u0259 proqnozla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131la bil\u0259n olur. Sad\u0259c\u0259 xahi\u015f etm\u0259k qal\u0131r, m\u00fcqavim\u0259t g\u00f6rs\u0259n \u015f\u0131ltaql\u0131q et v\u0259 ist\u0259diyini \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ancaq b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda bu i\u015fl\u0259mir, \u00e7\u00fcnki dan\u0131\u015f\u0131qlar aparma\u011f\u0131 bacarmaq g\u0259r\u0259kdir, lakin korlanm\u0131\u015f \u0259rk\u00f6y\u00fcn u\u015faq \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t bacar\u0131qlar\u0131ndan m\u0259hrumdur. U\u015faqlara h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q qay\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 onlayn d\u00fcnyada ya\u015famaq karyera y\u00fcks\u0259li\u015fi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn z\u0259ruri olan emosional intellektin inki\u015faf\u0131na mane olur. Talentsmart bir milyondan \u00e7ox amerikal\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131naqdan ke\u00e7irdi. Emosional intellekt top-menecerl\u0259rin 90%-d\u0259, ancaq m\u00fcxt\u0259lif biznes sah\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n olan adi i\u015f\u00e7il\u0259rin yaln\u0131z 20%-d\u0259 inki\u015faf etmi\u015fdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k pe\u015f\u0259ni se\u00e7m\u0259k abituriyent \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u0259suliyy\u0259tli add\u0131md\u0131r. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ger\u00e7\u0259kl\u0259\u015fm\u0259y\u0259n pe\u015f\u0259kar x\u0259yallar\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irm\u0259sini ist\u0259y\u0259n valideynl\u0259r qo\u015fulduqda v\u0259ziyy\u0259t daha da \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fir. Budur istedadl\u0131 u\u011fursuz memar m\u00fchasibatl\u0131q oxuma\u011fa g\u00f6nd\u0259rilir. U\u015faq valideynl\u0259rin ist\u0259diyi kimi v\u0259 ya onlar\u0131n ist\u0259yinin \u0259ksin\u0259 ya\u015faya bil\u0259r, lakin nadir hallarda \u00f6z h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar ki, bu da u\u011fur qazanmaq \u015fans\u0131n\u0131 azald\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Birba\u015fa t\u0259klif v\u0259 t\u0259lqin valideynin arsenal\u0131nda \u0259n populyar vasit\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n biridir. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn u\u015fa\u011fa daim eyni \u015feyi t\u0259krarlamaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bir az diqq\u0259tli valideynl\u0259r m\u00fcsb\u0259t s\u00f6zl\u0259rd\u0259n istifad\u0259 edirl\u0259r. B\u0259zil\u0259ri sanki birba\u015fa etiket as\u0131rlar: &#8220;a\u011fla\u011fan&#8221;, &#8220;qabiliyy\u0259tsiz&#8221;, &#8220;bacar\u0131qs\u0131z&#8221;, &#8220;qorxaq&#8221;. Bu ifad\u0259l\u0259r m\u0259hvedici proqramlar \u015f\u0259klind\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131na n\u00fcfuz edir v\u0259 zamanla valideynl\u0259rin t\u0259yin etdiyi kimi h\u0259yata ke\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">U\u015faq ba\u011f\u00e7as\u0131 v\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259bin t\u0259sirl\u0259ri<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>U\u015faqlar h\u0259r \u015feyl\u0259 \u00e7ox maraqlan\u0131rlar. Laqeyd pedaqoqlar biliy\u0259 olan m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259ti korlama\u011fa qadirdirl\u0259r, \u00e7\u00fcnki u\u015faqlar ita\u0259tkar olsalar, i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k daha asand\u0131r. C\u0259za ita\u0259ti a\u015f\u0131lama\u011f\u0131n \u0259n asan yoludur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcskarl\u0131q v\u0259 m\u00fcst\u0259qillik bo\u011fulur. Yetkinl\u0259\u015fdikd\u0259n sonra u\u015faq yeni layih\u0259l\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u0259suliyy\u0259t g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259kd\u0259n, insanlarla tan\u0131\u015f olmaqdan qorxacaq v\u0259 bir q\u0131zla tan\u0131\u015f olmaq kabusa \u00e7evril\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u00f6vl\u0259t yekun attestasiyas\u0131ndan, imtahandan u\u011furla ke\u00e7m\u0259yin sirri daim s\u0131x\u0131\u015fd\u0131rmaqd\u0131r. M\u0259kt\u0259bli g\u0259z\u0259n ensiklopediyaya \u00e7evrilir, informasiyan\u0131n t\u0259hlili, d\u0259rk edilm\u0259si is\u0259 yoxdur. U\u015faqda &#8220;klip t\u0259f\u0259kk\u00fcr\u00fc&#8221; inki\u015faf edir &#8211; o, \u00e7ox \u015fey bilir, lakin bir-birind\u0259n f\u0259rqli m\u0259lumat hiss\u0259l\u0259rini bir b\u00fct\u00f6vd\u0259 birl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259 bilmir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u018fla\u00e7\u0131lar b\u00f6y\u00fck miqdarda m\u0259lumat\u0131 m\u0259nims\u0259y\u0259rk\u0259n, z\u0259if \u015fagirdl\u0259r aktiv \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t yarad\u0131r, \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t bacar\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 inki\u015faf etdirir v\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259r qururlar. R\u0259hb\u0259r v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 v\u0259 biznesd\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131qlar aparmaq, inand\u0131rmaq, nitqd\u0259 cazib\u0259dar olmaq v\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n istifad\u0259 etm\u0259k vacibdir ki, bu \u0259la\u00e7\u0131 \u015fagirdl\u0259rd\u0259 he\u00e7 d\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 al\u0131nm\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u018fd\u0259biyyat \u00fczr\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b proqram\u0131 \u0259ks\u0259r \u015fagirdl\u0259r\u0259 dar\u0131xd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 g\u0259lir. Daim maraqs\u0131z kitab oxumaq \u0259d\u0259biyyat sevgisini \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcr, in\u015fa yazmaq is\u0259 i\u015fg\u0259nc\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evrilir. Problem kitablarda deyil, oxucunun yetkinl\u0259\u015fm\u0259m\u0259sind\u0259dir. \u0130stedadl\u0131 \u0259dibin &#8211; fantastik yaz\u0131\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yi m\u0259hv olacaq. Yaz\u0131 yazmaq fikri onu \u00fcrp\u0259d\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Q\u0259dim Romada yem\u0259kd\u0259n sonra \u0259l salfetl\u0259ri \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 q\u0131vr\u0131m sa\u00e7l\u0131 o\u011flanlardan istifad\u0259 edirdil\u0259r. XVIII-ci \u0259sr\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 m\u0259qs\u0259di il\u0259 fiziki c\u0259zaya m\u0259ruz qoymaq ad\u0259t idi. H\u0259tta 8 ya\u015f\u0131nda taxta \u00e7\u0131xan Fransa kral\u0131 XIV L\u00fcdovik s\u0259h\u0259r&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1762,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rockvell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1747"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rockvell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rockvell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rockvell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rockvell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1747"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rockvell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1747\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1749,"href":"https:\/\/rockvell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1747\/revisions\/1749"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rockvell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1762"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rockvell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1747"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rockvell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1747"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rockvell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1747"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}